Showing posts with label optimistic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label optimistic. Show all posts

Monday, September 23, 2013

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF LIFE? CHANGING YOUR LIFE WITH WORDS - DAY 117

We all know people who are upbeat, positive, cheerful and optimistic.  They love life and no matter what befalls them they continue to love life.  We also all know people who are bitter, negative, dour and pessimistic.  They do not love life, and everything that happens to them is just one more validation to them that life is not good.  Which type of person do you enjoy being with the most?  Unless you are one of the unhappy people yourself, then I feel certain you choose to be around the people who love life.

Someone once asked me if I thought they deserved the life they had.  I replied that she did not get the life she deserved but rather the life she chose.  My reply offended her, but I went on to explain that we all get the lives we choose as we begin making choices at a very young age and we continue to do so daily for the rest of our lives.  The more bad choices we make the more our lives are impacted.  It is never too late to stop making bad choices though and to begin making good choices.

Certainly there are things which happen that are beyond our control like floods, hurricanes, tornadoes, droughts, blizzards, and fires.  These events can certainly negatively affect our lives in the short term and even in the long term.  These events don't happen every day though so most of the things which happen to us or for us are because of our choices, our attitude, our behavior, and the people with whom we surround ourselves.

Things are very bad in the world right now with so much anger, hate, killing, greed, poverty, deceit, lust for power, and ignorance. This does not mean that life is bad but rather that many people are bad. Many people have no respect for life or even value their own lives. These are the people who make life difficult for so many others, but even though difficult at times life is still good.

Choose to remind yourself each day of what is good in your life or what is good in the world.  Even the poorest of the poor can see beauty in a sunrise or sunset, the magnificence of an ocean or river, and the grandeur of mountains, valleys, and deserts.

Today's message is:

LIFE IS GOOD!





Wednesday, August 14, 2013

ARE YOU AN UPPER OR A DOWNER? CHANGING YOUR LIFE WITH WORDS - DAY 77

It is no secret that most of us prefer the company of people who are positive, upbeat, and optimistic about life and the future.  People who are negative, always unhappy and complaining, and pessimistic about everything can be toxic to others.  If you are one of the people whose companionship is preferred, then good for you.  If you are one of the other types, then make a decision to change your attitude and change your behavior.  It will ultimately benefit you.

Today's message is:

UPLIFT THE WORLD!


Friday, February 1, 2013

Are You A Positive Thinker?

During the course of my life I have tried to be a positive thinker and an optimistic person in general.  My children continue to refer to me as "Polly" as in Pollyanna, but I am not oblivious to the negative things that happen in my life or around me.  I just choose to think that my glass is half-full rather than half-empty.

Because these times in which we are living are so troubled, I was pleased to find a way to use a list of positive thoughts, actions, and feelings for two Christmas gifts. The list originated with a man Leo Quinn who has various Internet enterprises and on whose mailing list I am.  I printed out the list for myself.  Then as the holidays came closer for my daughter and my cousin I photocopied the list and cut each word out.  Having at least 365 strips of paper I put each set in an opaque plastic bowl with a red cover (not very elegant but I needed something large enough to hold all the slips of paper).  I told both recipients that I hoped each morning during 2013 they would draw out one piece of paper and focus on that word throughout the day.  Whether they actually will follow through or not I don't know, but I believe if they do that they will benefit from focusing on the positive.  I also gave them other gifts.

Are you a positive or negative individual?  If you are positive, please leave your comments as to how you maintain your positive attitude?  If you are a negative person, what would it take to change your attitude from pessimistic to optimistic?  Share your comments, please.  You never know when what you write will help a person on the other side of your town or on the other side of the world.