Rather than succumbing to the chaos, you can take action to escape from it and not just by leaving the place where it is currently reigning. If your home life is chaotic do you truly know what is causing it? Do you feel it is the fault of another person living in the home, or is it caused by something as simple as lack of planning or oversleeping? In your business life do you feel the chaos is caused by a superior or by subordinates? Trying to end chaos caused by a superior is not as easy as ending chaos caused by subordinates for obvious reasons.
If you hate chaos and prefer peace and tranquility then you must take it upon yourself to learn to find the source and find the solution. Either learn how to do it yourself or avail yourself of one of the many resources of professional help available to us today. Whether on line, in a book, on TV, or in person there are people who have mastered this and you can learn to do it. You can and will be able to do that if you learn to